Japanese Words of Endearment
Japanese expresses affection more through tone and context than through dedicated pet names, but a few phrases are genuinely used this way. Below are the most common ones.
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A
- abarenbou暴れん坊abarenbō
Roughneck (affectionate for a wild or highly energetic boy)
- ahoアホ
Idiot (in Kansai dialect, often used very affectionately/playfully)
- aibou相棒aibō
Partner/Buddy (affectionate for a very close companion or spouse)
- aibou-chan相棒ちゃんaibōchan
Partner/Buddy (cute diminutive for a close partner)
- aika愛夏
Love summer (used as a poetic affectionate name, context-dependent)
- aishiteru愛してる
I love you (deep, serious, heavy romantic affection)
- amanojaku天邪鬼
Contrarian (affectionate tease for someone who hides their true sweet feelings)
- anataあなた
Darling/Dear (classic term used by wives to husbands, affectionate)
- anata dakeあなただけ
Only you (romantic, intense affection)
- anata-samaあなた様anatasama
My dear (highly polite, slightly archaic/submissive affection)
- ane-go姉御anego
Big sis (affectionate/respectful, slightly rough/gangster nuance)
- anem-bo甘えん坊amaenbō
Spoiled child (affectionate for someone who loves to be coddled)
- anesan姉さん
Big sis (affectionate/respectful term for an older female mentor/friend)
- anii兄ぃ
Bro (casual, affectionate masculine term for older brother figure)
- aniki兄貴
Big bro (affectionate/respectful term for an older male mentor/friend)
- antaあんた
You/Dear (casual, can be affectionate between long-term partners or slightly rough)
- awatenbouあわてん坊awatenbō
Scatterbrain (affectionate tease for someone who rushes and fumbles)
B
- baabaばあば
Grandma (affectionate baby-talk term for grandmother)
- baachanばあちゃん
Grandma (informal and affectionate)
- baka-chanバカちゃんbakachan
Little silly (very affectionate tease)
- bakarou馬鹿野郎bakayarō
Idiot (can be used with rough, tsundere-style affection)
- beibiiベイビーbeibī
Baby (borrowed from English, used in modern slang or pop culture)
- bijin美人
Beautiful woman (complimentary affection)
- bishoujo美少女bishōjo
Beautiful girl (affectionate praise)
- bishounen美少年bishōnen
Beautiful boy (affectionate praise)
- bo-坊-bō
Boy (affectionate term for a little boy, e.g., akanbo)
- bocchan坊ちゃんbotchan
Young master (playful or teasing affection for a sheltered boy)
- bokeボケ
Idiot (in Kansai dialect, part of playful banter/affection)
- boku no僕の
Mine (masculine possessive, romantic context)
- bujyu不細工busaiku
Ugly (sometimes used as ironic, teasing affection between very close couples)
- bukiccho不器っちょ
Clumsy (cute, affectionate variation of bukiyou)
- buta-chan豚ちゃんbutachan
Little pig (teasing affection, highly contextual)
- buzakawaブサカワbusakawa
Ugly-cute (affectionate term for a pet or person who is unconventionally cute)
C
- chan-ちゃん-chan
Cute suffix (highly affectionate, used for girls, kids, or close lovers)
- chi-ち-chi
Nickname suffix (casual, affectionate shortening of names)
- chibiちび
Shorty/Little one (affectionate teasing for someone small or a kid)
- chibikkoちびっこ
Little kid (very affectionate for young children)
- chou-kawaii超可愛いchōkawaii
Super cute (enthusiastic affection)
D
- daarinダーリンdārin
Darling (borrowed from English, playful and affectionate)
- daishinyuu大親友daishinyū
Great best friend (affectionate, ultimate platonic bond)
- daisuki大好き
I love you / I really like you (very common expression of deep affection)
- danna旦那
Husband (casual, used affectionately by wives)
- danna-sama旦那様dannasama
My lord husband (polite but often used playfully/affectionately)
- deko-chanデコちゃんdekochan
Forehead (playful tease for someone with a prominent forehead)
- dere-dereデレデレderedere
Lovestruck (affectionate teasing for a partner acting overly sweet)
- deredere-sanデレデレさんderederesan
Mr./Ms. Lovestruck (teasing a partner who is completely smitten)
- deshi弟子
Disciple (playful term for a partner learning from you)
- dojiドジ
Clumsy (often used as an affectionate tease)
- douhou同胞dōhō
Brethren (dramatic affection for fellow fans or friends)
E
- enjeruエンジェル
Angel (English loanword, exaggerated affection)
F
- fuwa-fuwaふわふわfuwafuwa
Fluffy (cute slang used to describe a soft or gentle partner)
G
- ganbariya頑張り屋
Hard worker (affectionate praise for someone who tries hard)
- goshujin-samaご主人様goshujinsama
Master/Husband (playful roleplay or highly formal affection)
H
- hana花
Flower (used metaphorically for a beautiful, cherished person)
- haniiハニーhanī
Honey (borrowed from English, often used jokingly or playfully)
- hazuハズ
Husband (slang abbreviation of husband, playful)
- hazukashigariya恥ずかしがり屋
Shy person (affectionate tease for a bashful partner)
- heeta下手heta
Clumsy/Bad at (used as an endearing tease: "you're so bad at this")
- hikari光
Light (poetic romantic affection, "you are my light")
- hime姫
Princess (playful endearment for a spoiled or cherished girlfriend/daughter)
- hime-sama姫様himesama
Princess (elevated, theatrical playful affection)
- hiyokoひよこ
Chick (affectionate tease for a rookie or cute young person)
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- hoshi星
Star (rarely used as direct endearment, poetic)
- hoshikuzu星屑
Stardust (poetic, romantic but rare in daily life)
I
- ichiban一番
Number one (used affectionately to say someone is the best)
- ichizu一途
Devoted (affectionate praise for a loyal partner)
- ii onnaいい女
Good woman (affectionate praise, slightly mature tone)
- ii otokoいい男
Good man (affectionate praise)
- ikemenイケメン
Handsome guy (playful affection for a good-looking partner)
- ikoいい子iiko
Good kid/Good girl/Good boy (used as praise or affectionate petting)
- imouto-chan妹ちゃんimōtochan
Little sis (affectionate for a younger sister or younger female friend)
- inochi命
Life (poetic, "you are my life")
- itazurakkoいたずらっ子
Mischievous child (endearing tease)
- itoshii hito愛しい人
Beloved (deep, sincere romantic affection)
J
- jiichanじいちゃん
Grandpa (informal and affectionate)
- jiijiじいじ
Grandpa (affectionate baby-talk term for grandfather)
- jijiiジジイjijī
Old man (rough, used affectionately only between very close, rough-speaking lifelong partners)
- jou-嬢-jō
Miss/Girl (sometimes used playfully for a young woman)
K
- kachou課長kachō
Section chief (playful roleplay title for a bossy partner)
- kakkoiiかっこいい
Cool/Handsome (affectionate compliment for a male partner)
- kamatte-chanかまってちゃんkamattechan
Attention seeker (affectionate tease for a clingy partner)
- kanna神無
Wife (rare/archaic, needs review for modern affection)
- kano-pi彼女ピkanopi
Girlfriend (playful youth slang variation of kanojo)
- kanojo彼女
Girlfriend (standard term)
- kareshi彼氏
Boyfriend (standard term)
- kareshi-pi彼氏ピkareshipi
Boyfriend (playful youth slang variation of kareshi)
- kawaii可愛い
Cute (used constantly as an expression of affection)
- kawaii hito可愛い人
Cute person (affectionate description/address)
- kibou希望kibō
Hope (poetic romantic affection, "you are my hope")
- kikanbouきかん坊kikanbō
Mischievous kid (affectionate for an unruly but cute child)
- kimi君
You (often used affectionately or romantically in songs and poetry)
- kimo-kawaキモカワkimokawa
Creepy-cute (affectionate term for weird but cute things)
- kira-kiraキラキラkirakira
Sparkly (affectionate description of a radiant or energetic person)
- kirei綺麗
Beautiful (affectionate compliment for a partner)
- kitsuneキツネ
Fox (tease for a sly or sharp-featured person)
- kizuna絆
Bond (affectionate reference to a deep connection)
- ko子
Child/Girl (used affectionately in compounds like "ii ko" - good girl/child)
- ko-akuma小悪魔koakuma
Little devil (playful for a teasing, captivating woman)
- ko-neko子猫koneko
Kitten (playful/romantic translation of pet names, rare in real life)
- koibito恋人
Lover/Girlfriend/Boyfriend (standard term, romantic affection)
- koinu子犬
Puppy (affectionate for a cute, eager boy/partner)
- koinu-chan子犬ちゃんkoinuchan
Puppy (highly affectionate for a cute, younger male partner)
- koishiteru恋してる
I am in love (romantic affection)
- kokoro no sasae心の支え
Emotional support/Pillar of my heart (deeply affectionate)
- kouhai-chan後輩ちゃんkōhaichan
Junior (affectionate for a cute younger colleague or student)
- kuishinbo食いしん坊kuishinbō
Glutton (affectionate teasing for someone who loves to eat)
- kuma-san熊さんkumasan
Mr. Bear (affectionate for a large, comforting man)
- kun-くん-kun
Friendly suffix (affectionate for boys, or between close partners)
- kyoudai兄弟kyōdai
Brothers/Bros (deep affection between male friends)
M
- mago-chan孫ちゃんmagochan
Grandbaby (affectionate for a grandchild)
- mai rabuマイラブ
My love (English loanword, used playfully)
- mai suitoマイスイートmai suīto
My sweet (English loanword, romantic/playful)
- maji-tomoマジ友majitomo
True friend (affectionate slang)
- majo魔女
Witch (teasing affection for a captivating or tricky woman)
- mamaママ
Mama/Mom (often used by husbands to address their wives after having kids)
- maou魔王maō
Demon king (playful for a dominant or imposing partner)
- megami女神
Goddess (romantic compliment for a revered or beautiful partner)
- megamisama女神様
Goddess (exaggerated praise for a female partner)
- megane-chanメガネちゃんmeganechan
Glasses (playful affection for a girl who wears glasses)
- meoto夫婦
Married couple (traditional, carries a warm, lifelong bond nuance)
- mikata味方
Ally (affectionate expression of unwavering support)
- mochi-mochiもちもちmochimochi
Squishy (cute slang for soft cheeks or a squishy, lovable person)
- mosa猛者
Fierce one (teasing affection for a strong person)
- motokano元カノ
Ex-girlfriend (not usually affectionate, informational)
- motokare元カレ
Ex-boyfriend (not usually affectionate, informational)
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- musuko-ya息子や
My son (affectionate, old-fashioned calling)
- musume-ya娘や
My daughter (affectionate, old-fashioned calling)
N
- nakama仲間
Comrade/Friend (affectionate term for in-group bounds)
- nakimushi泣き虫
Crybaby (affectionate tease for an emotional or sensitive person)
- namakemono怠け者
Sloth/Lazybones (teasing affection for a lazy Sunday partner)
- neeneねえね
Big sister (affectionate baby-talk or informal term)
- neko-chan猫ちゃんnekochan
Kitty (affectionate comparison for an independent or cute partner)
- nemushinbo眠しん坊nemushinbō
Sleepyhead (affectionate for someone always tired or sleeping)
- niiniにいに
Big brother (affectionate baby-talk or informal term)
- nyan-にゃん-nyan
Meow suffix (playful, cat-like affectionate suffix)
O
- o-baka-sanおバカさんobakasan
Silly goose (gentle, affectionate tease)
- o-chibiおチビochibi
Little one (cute, affectionate for someone small)
- o-chibi-sanおチビさんochibisan
Little one (polite but cute, often used for kids)
- obasanおばさん
Old lady (affectionate/teasing for an older girlfriend or wife, risky)
- ojisanおじさん
Old man (affectionate/teasing for an older boyfriend or husband)
- ojousanお嬢さんojōsan
Young lady (playful or endearing for a sweet girl)
- okaachanお母ちゃんokāchan
Mommy/Ma (casual, endearing term for mother or wife)
- okaasanお母さんokāsan
Mother (used affectionately between older married couples)
- okorinbo怒りん坊okorinbō
Hothead (affectionate teasing for someone quick to pout/anger)
- okusan奥さん
Wife (polite, used playfully by some husbands)
- omaeお前
You (masculine, can be very affectionate/possessive when used by a boyfriend/husband)
- omoibito想い人
The one I love/Sweetheart (poetic, slightly archaic)
- onee-chanお姉ちゃんoneechan
Big sister (highly affectionate, sometimes romantic for older girlfriends)
- onee-samaお姉様oneesama
Big sister (formal, theatrical affection)
- oni鬼
Demon (playful teasing for a strict but loved partner)
- oni-yome鬼嫁oniyome
Demon wife (joking term husbands use, often masking deep affection and respect)
- onii-chanお兄ちゃんoniichan
Big brother (highly affectionate, sometimes used romantically for older boyfriends)
- onii-samaお兄様oniisama
Big brother (formal, theatrical affection)
- onrii wanオンリーワンonrī wan
My only one (English loanword used for romantic affection)
- ore no俺の
Mine (rough masculine possessive, confident romantic context)
- ore no onna俺の女
My woman (rough, possessive masculine affection)
- ore no yome俺の嫁
My wife (otaku slang, used affectionately for favorite characters or real wives)
- osananajimi幼馴染
Childhood friend (carries a nostalgic, affectionate, often romantic weight)
- oshi推し
Favorite/Bias (idol slang now used affectionately for highly cherished partners)
- oshidori fuufuおしどり夫婦oshidori fūfu
Lovebirds (affectionate term for a happily married couple)
- otouchanお父ちゃんotōchan
Daddy/Pop (casual, endearing term for father or husband)
- otousanお父さんotōsan
Father (used affectionately between older married couples)
- otouto-kun弟くんotōtokun
Little bro (affectionate for a younger brother or male friend)
- ouji王子
Prince (playful for a handsome boyfriend or cherished son)
- ouji-sama王子様ōjisama
Prince (elevated, theatrical playful affection)
P
- paatonaaパートナーpātonā
Partner (modern, egalitarian term for a significant other)
- papaパパ
Papa/Dad (often used by wives to address their husbands after having kids)
- penginペンギン
Penguin (teasing affection for someone cute or clumsy)
- pi-ぴ-pi
Cute suffix (modern slang, highly informal and playful)
- pippiピッピ
Boyfriend/Partner (modern youth slang, very casual)
- pocha-kawaぽちゃカワpochakawa
Chubby-cute (affectionate slang for a delightfully plump person)
- ponkotsuポンコツ
Useless/Junk (modern slang, used highly affectionately for a lovable klutz)
- ppe-っぺ-ppe
Rustic suffix (sometimes used affectionately or jokingly between friends)
- puni-puniぷにぷにpunipuni
Squishy (cute sound used affectionately to poke a partner's cheeks)
- pureshasuプレシャス
Precious (English loanword, theatrical affection)
R
- rabaaラバーrabā
Lover (English loanword, modern romance)
- rabu-rabuラブラブraburabu
Lovey-dovey (slang to describe an openly affectionate couple)
- rin-りん-rin
Cute suffix (often attached to names for an affectionate, bubbly feel)
- ryouomoi両想いryōomoi
Mutually in love (status term, but used affectionately)
- ryuu竜ryū
Dragon (playful praise for a fierce or energetic boy)
S
- sabishigariya寂しがり屋
Lonely person (affectionate for someone who hates being alone)
- saikou最高saikō
The best (used affectionately to praise a partner's actions or being)
- saru猿
Monkey (teasing affection for a mischievous kid or person)
- seishun青春
Youth (affectionate metaphor for someone who makes them feel young/alive)
- sekai ichi世界一
Best in the world (exaggerated, sweet affection)
- senpai先輩
Senior (often carries romantic undertones in school/work contexts)
- sensei先生
Teacher (sometimes used as playful roleplay affection between couples)
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- shachou社長shachō
President (playful tease for a partner who acts like the boss)
- shimai姉妹
Sisters (close affection between female friends)
- shinyuu親友shinyū
Best friend (affectionate label for closest confidant)
- shisho師匠shishō
Master (playful term for a partner who is better at something)
- shou-akuma小悪魔shōakuma
Little devil (endearing term for a playfully manipulative/teasing girl)
- shoujo少女shōjo
Girl (sometimes used poetically to express a partner's innocence)
- shounen少年shōnen
Boy (sometimes used poetically to express a partner's youthful spirit)
- shugaaシュガーshugā
Sugar (English loanword, playful pet name)
- shujin主人
Husband (formal, but can carry affectionate loyalty)
- suito-haatoスウィートハートsuītohāto
Sweetheart (English loanword, rare but playful)
- suki好き
I like you (often implies love in Japanese context)
- suteki素敵
Lovely/Wonderful (often used to affectionately praise a partner)
T
- taisetsu na hito大切な人
Important person (cherished romantic partner or family member)
- taishou大将taishō
Boss (playful, affectionate for a confident male partner)
- taiyou太陽taiyō
Sun (poetic endearment, "you are my sun")
- taiyou-san太陽さんtaiyōsan
Mr. Sun (cute, affectionate nickname for a bright, cheerful person)
- takarabako宝箱
Treasure box (rare, poetic metaphor for someone holding one's joy)
- takarano宝物takaramono
Treasure (affectionate term for a child or highly cherished person)
- tan-たん-tan
Baby-talk suffix (hyper-affectionate/otaku culture variation of -chan)
- tanukiタヌキ
Raccoon dog (tease for a chubby or cleverly mischievous person)
- tennen天然
Airhead (affectionate tease for someone naturally spacey or innocent)
- tenshi天使
Angel (used affectionately for someone pure or a cute child)
- tenshi-chan天使ちゃんtenshichan
Little angel (highly affectionate for a cute girl or child)
- tereshou照れ性tereshō
Shy person (affectionate description of a bashful partner)
- tomo友
Friend (deep affection for a lifelong friend)
- tonari no hito隣の人
The person next to me (modest, affectionate way to refer to a spouse)
- tonosama殿様
Lord (teasing for an arrogant but loved partner)
- tora虎
Tiger (playful praise for a fierce or protective person)
- toshishita no kanojo年下の彼女
Younger girlfriend (factual but often used with cute affection)
- toshishita no kareshi年下の彼氏
Younger boyfriend (factual but often used with cute affection)
- toshishita-chan年下ちゃんtoshishitachan
Younger girl (affectionate term for a younger female partner)
- toshishita-kun年下くんtoshishitakun
Younger boy (affectionate term for a younger male partner)
- toutoi尊いtōtoi
Precious/Divine (slang to describe overwhelming affection for someone)
- tsuki月
Moon (poetic, historic connotations of love like "tsuki ga kirei")
- tsukkomiツッコミ
Straight man (playful label for the logical partner in banter)
- tsuma妻
Wife (standard, but used with deep affection in private)
- tsundereツンデレ
Prickly then sweet (pop culture term used affectionately for defensive partners)
U
- uchi noうちの
My [partner/kid] (casual, affectionate ingroup marker)
- uchi no hitoうちの人
My person (casual, affectionate way wives refer to husbands)
- uchi no koうちの子
My child (deeply affectionate for kids or beloved pets)
- unmei no hito運命の人
Person of destiny/Soulmate (highly romantic)
- usagi-chanうさぎちゃんusagichan
Little bunny (affectionate for a cute, timid girl)
- utsukushii美しい
Beautiful (poetic, deep affectionate praise)
W
- waga-gimi我が君wagagimi
My lord (archaic/fantasy, extreme respectful affection)
- wagamamaわがまま
Selfish (often used affectionately to describe a cute, demanding partner)
- waifuワイフ
Wife (borrowed from English, sometimes used playfully)
- waka若
Young master (playful, archaic tease for a boy)
- wan-chanワンちゃんwanchan
Doggie (affectionate comparison for an eager, loyal partner)
- warugaki悪ガキ
Brat (affectionate for a mischievous child or partner)
- wasurenbo忘れん坊wasurenbō
Forgetful person (playful tease)
- watashi no私の
Mine (feminine/neutral possessive, romantic context)
- watashi no otoko私の男
My man (confident feminine possessive affection)
Y
- yaba-kawaヤバカワyabakawa
Crazy cute (slang for overwhelming affection)
- yama-no-kami山の神yama no kami
Goddess of the mountain (archaic/joking, respectful/fearful affection for a wife)
- yandereヤンデレ
Lovesick and crazy (pop culture term, sometimes jokingly used for intense clinginess)
- yasashii hito優しい人
Kind person (affectionate description of a gentle partner)
- yatsugareやつがれ
I/Me (archaic, used in historical anime, not modern endearment)
- yome嫁
Wife (casual, sometimes used affectionately or possessively by husbands)
- yome-chan嫁ちゃんyomechan
Wifey (casual, highly affectionate slang for one's wife)
- yousei妖精yōsei
Fairy (playful praise for an ethereal or cute girl)
- yowamushi弱虫
Scaredy-cat (affectionate tease for a timid person)
Z
- zokonぞっこんzokkon
Deeply in love/Smitten (informal expression of intense affection)
- zutto-tomoズッ友zuttotomo
Friends forever (affectionate youth slang)