Japanese Words of Endearment

Japanese expresses affection more through tone and context than through dedicated pet names, but a few phrases are genuinely used this way. Below are the most common ones.

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A

  • abarenbou暴れん坊abarenbō

    Roughneck (affectionate for a wild or highly energetic boy)

  • ahoアホ

    Idiot (in Kansai dialect, often used very affectionately/playfully)

  • aibou相棒aibō

    Partner/Buddy (affectionate for a very close companion or spouse)

  • aibou-chan相棒ちゃんaibōchan

    Partner/Buddy (cute diminutive for a close partner)

  • aika愛夏

    Love summer (used as a poetic affectionate name, context-dependent)

  • aishiteru愛してる

    I love you (deep, serious, heavy romantic affection)

  • amanojaku天邪鬼

    Contrarian (affectionate tease for someone who hides their true sweet feelings)

  • anataあなた

    Darling/Dear (classic term used by wives to husbands, affectionate)

  • anata dakeあなただけ

    Only you (romantic, intense affection)

  • anata-samaあなた様anatasama

    My dear (highly polite, slightly archaic/submissive affection)

  • ane-go姉御anego

    Big sis (affectionate/respectful, slightly rough/gangster nuance)

  • anem-bo甘えん坊amaenbō

    Spoiled child (affectionate for someone who loves to be coddled)

  • anesan姉さん

    Big sis (affectionate/respectful term for an older female mentor/friend)

  • anii兄ぃ

    Bro (casual, affectionate masculine term for older brother figure)

  • aniki兄貴

    Big bro (affectionate/respectful term for an older male mentor/friend)

  • antaあんた

    You/Dear (casual, can be affectionate between long-term partners or slightly rough)

  • awatenbouあわてん坊awatenbō

    Scatterbrain (affectionate tease for someone who rushes and fumbles)

B

  • baabaばあば

    Grandma (affectionate baby-talk term for grandmother)

  • baachanばあちゃん

    Grandma (informal and affectionate)

  • baka-chanバカちゃんbakachan

    Little silly (very affectionate tease)

  • bakarou馬鹿野郎bakayarō

    Idiot (can be used with rough, tsundere-style affection)

  • beibiiベイビーbeibī

    Baby (borrowed from English, used in modern slang or pop culture)

  • bijin美人

    Beautiful woman (complimentary affection)

  • bishoujo美少女bishōjo

    Beautiful girl (affectionate praise)

  • bishounen美少年bishōnen

    Beautiful boy (affectionate praise)

  • bo-坊-bō

    Boy (affectionate term for a little boy, e.g., akanbo)

  • bocchan坊ちゃんbotchan

    Young master (playful or teasing affection for a sheltered boy)

  • bokeボケ

    Idiot (in Kansai dialect, part of playful banter/affection)

  • boku no僕の

    Mine (masculine possessive, romantic context)

  • bujyu不細工busaiku

    Ugly (sometimes used as ironic, teasing affection between very close couples)

  • bukiccho不器っちょ

    Clumsy (cute, affectionate variation of bukiyou)

  • buta-chan豚ちゃんbutachan

    Little pig (teasing affection, highly contextual)

  • buzakawaブサカワbusakawa

    Ugly-cute (affectionate term for a pet or person who is unconventionally cute)

C

  • chan-ちゃん-chan

    Cute suffix (highly affectionate, used for girls, kids, or close lovers)

  • chi-ち-chi

    Nickname suffix (casual, affectionate shortening of names)

  • chibiちび

    Shorty/Little one (affectionate teasing for someone small or a kid)

  • chibikkoちびっこ

    Little kid (very affectionate for young children)

  • chou-kawaii超可愛いchōkawaii

    Super cute (enthusiastic affection)

D

  • daarinダーリンdārin

    Darling (borrowed from English, playful and affectionate)

  • daishinyuu大親友daishinyū

    Great best friend (affectionate, ultimate platonic bond)

  • daisuki大好き

    I love you / I really like you (very common expression of deep affection)

  • danna旦那

    Husband (casual, used affectionately by wives)

  • danna-sama旦那様dannasama

    My lord husband (polite but often used playfully/affectionately)

  • deko-chanデコちゃんdekochan

    Forehead (playful tease for someone with a prominent forehead)

  • dere-dereデレデレderedere

    Lovestruck (affectionate teasing for a partner acting overly sweet)

  • deredere-sanデレデレさんderederesan

    Mr./Ms. Lovestruck (teasing a partner who is completely smitten)

  • deshi弟子

    Disciple (playful term for a partner learning from you)

  • dojiドジ

    Clumsy (often used as an affectionate tease)

  • douhou同胞dōhō

    Brethren (dramatic affection for fellow fans or friends)

E

  • enjeruエンジェル

    Angel (English loanword, exaggerated affection)

F

  • fuwa-fuwaふわふわfuwafuwa

    Fluffy (cute slang used to describe a soft or gentle partner)

G

  • ganbariya頑張り屋

    Hard worker (affectionate praise for someone who tries hard)

  • goshujin-samaご主人様goshujinsama

    Master/Husband (playful roleplay or highly formal affection)

H

  • hana花

    Flower (used metaphorically for a beautiful, cherished person)

  • haniiハニーhanī

    Honey (borrowed from English, often used jokingly or playfully)

  • hazuハズ

    Husband (slang abbreviation of husband, playful)

  • hazukashigariya恥ずかしがり屋

    Shy person (affectionate tease for a bashful partner)

  • heeta下手heta

    Clumsy/Bad at (used as an endearing tease: "you're so bad at this")

  • hikari光

    Light (poetic romantic affection, "you are my light")

  • hime姫

    Princess (playful endearment for a spoiled or cherished girlfriend/daughter)

  • hime-sama姫様himesama

    Princess (elevated, theatrical playful affection)

  • hiyokoひよこ

    Chick (affectionate tease for a rookie or cute young person)

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  • hoshi星

    Star (rarely used as direct endearment, poetic)

  • hoshikuzu星屑

    Stardust (poetic, romantic but rare in daily life)

I

  • ichiban一番

    Number one (used affectionately to say someone is the best)

  • ichizu一途

    Devoted (affectionate praise for a loyal partner)

  • ii onnaいい女

    Good woman (affectionate praise, slightly mature tone)

  • ii otokoいい男

    Good man (affectionate praise)

  • ikemenイケメン

    Handsome guy (playful affection for a good-looking partner)

  • ikoいい子iiko

    Good kid/Good girl/Good boy (used as praise or affectionate petting)

  • imouto-chan妹ちゃんimōtochan

    Little sis (affectionate for a younger sister or younger female friend)

  • inochi命

    Life (poetic, "you are my life")

  • itazurakkoいたずらっ子

    Mischievous child (endearing tease)

  • itoshii hito愛しい人

    Beloved (deep, sincere romantic affection)

J

  • jiichanじいちゃん

    Grandpa (informal and affectionate)

  • jiijiじいじ

    Grandpa (affectionate baby-talk term for grandfather)

  • jijiiジジイjijī

    Old man (rough, used affectionately only between very close, rough-speaking lifelong partners)

  • jou-嬢-jō

    Miss/Girl (sometimes used playfully for a young woman)

K

  • kachou課長kachō

    Section chief (playful roleplay title for a bossy partner)

  • kakkoiiかっこいい

    Cool/Handsome (affectionate compliment for a male partner)

  • kamatte-chanかまってちゃんkamattechan

    Attention seeker (affectionate tease for a clingy partner)

  • kanna神無

    Wife (rare/archaic, needs review for modern affection)

  • kano-pi彼女ピkanopi

    Girlfriend (playful youth slang variation of kanojo)

  • kanojo彼女

    Girlfriend (standard term)

  • kareshi彼氏

    Boyfriend (standard term)

  • kareshi-pi彼氏ピkareshipi

    Boyfriend (playful youth slang variation of kareshi)

  • kawaii可愛い

    Cute (used constantly as an expression of affection)

  • kawaii hito可愛い人

    Cute person (affectionate description/address)

  • kibou希望kibō

    Hope (poetic romantic affection, "you are my hope")

  • kikanbouきかん坊kikanbō

    Mischievous kid (affectionate for an unruly but cute child)

  • kimi君

    You (often used affectionately or romantically in songs and poetry)

  • kimo-kawaキモカワkimokawa

    Creepy-cute (affectionate term for weird but cute things)

  • kira-kiraキラキラkirakira

    Sparkly (affectionate description of a radiant or energetic person)

  • kirei綺麗

    Beautiful (affectionate compliment for a partner)

  • kitsuneキツネ

    Fox (tease for a sly or sharp-featured person)

  • kizuna絆

    Bond (affectionate reference to a deep connection)

  • ko子

    Child/Girl (used affectionately in compounds like "ii ko" - good girl/child)

  • ko-akuma小悪魔koakuma

    Little devil (playful for a teasing, captivating woman)

  • ko-neko子猫koneko

    Kitten (playful/romantic translation of pet names, rare in real life)

  • koibito恋人

    Lover/Girlfriend/Boyfriend (standard term, romantic affection)

  • koinu子犬

    Puppy (affectionate for a cute, eager boy/partner)

  • koinu-chan子犬ちゃんkoinuchan

    Puppy (highly affectionate for a cute, younger male partner)

  • koishiteru恋してる

    I am in love (romantic affection)

  • kokoro no sasae心の支え

    Emotional support/Pillar of my heart (deeply affectionate)

  • kouhai-chan後輩ちゃんkōhaichan

    Junior (affectionate for a cute younger colleague or student)

  • kuishinbo食いしん坊kuishinbō

    Glutton (affectionate teasing for someone who loves to eat)

  • kuma-san熊さんkumasan

    Mr. Bear (affectionate for a large, comforting man)

  • kun-くん-kun

    Friendly suffix (affectionate for boys, or between close partners)

  • kyoudai兄弟kyōdai

    Brothers/Bros (deep affection between male friends)

M

  • mago-chan孫ちゃんmagochan

    Grandbaby (affectionate for a grandchild)

  • mai rabuマイラブ

    My love (English loanword, used playfully)

  • mai suitoマイスイートmai suīto

    My sweet (English loanword, romantic/playful)

  • maji-tomoマジ友majitomo

    True friend (affectionate slang)

  • majo魔女

    Witch (teasing affection for a captivating or tricky woman)

  • mamaママ

    Mama/Mom (often used by husbands to address their wives after having kids)

  • maou魔王maō

    Demon king (playful for a dominant or imposing partner)

  • megami女神

    Goddess (romantic compliment for a revered or beautiful partner)

  • megamisama女神様

    Goddess (exaggerated praise for a female partner)

  • megane-chanメガネちゃんmeganechan

    Glasses (playful affection for a girl who wears glasses)

  • meoto夫婦

    Married couple (traditional, carries a warm, lifelong bond nuance)

  • mikata味方

    Ally (affectionate expression of unwavering support)

  • mochi-mochiもちもちmochimochi

    Squishy (cute slang for soft cheeks or a squishy, lovable person)

  • mosa猛者

    Fierce one (teasing affection for a strong person)

  • motokano元カノ

    Ex-girlfriend (not usually affectionate, informational)

  • motokare元カレ

    Ex-boyfriend (not usually affectionate, informational)

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  • musuko-ya息子や

    My son (affectionate, old-fashioned calling)

  • musume-ya娘や

    My daughter (affectionate, old-fashioned calling)

N

  • nakama仲間

    Comrade/Friend (affectionate term for in-group bounds)

  • nakimushi泣き虫

    Crybaby (affectionate tease for an emotional or sensitive person)

  • namakemono怠け者

    Sloth/Lazybones (teasing affection for a lazy Sunday partner)

  • neeneねえね

    Big sister (affectionate baby-talk or informal term)

  • neko-chan猫ちゃんnekochan

    Kitty (affectionate comparison for an independent or cute partner)

  • nemushinbo眠しん坊nemushinbō

    Sleepyhead (affectionate for someone always tired or sleeping)

  • niiniにいに

    Big brother (affectionate baby-talk or informal term)

  • nyan-にゃん-nyan

    Meow suffix (playful, cat-like affectionate suffix)

O

  • o-baka-sanおバカさんobakasan

    Silly goose (gentle, affectionate tease)

  • o-chibiおチビochibi

    Little one (cute, affectionate for someone small)

  • o-chibi-sanおチビさんochibisan

    Little one (polite but cute, often used for kids)

  • obasanおばさん

    Old lady (affectionate/teasing for an older girlfriend or wife, risky)

  • ojisanおじさん

    Old man (affectionate/teasing for an older boyfriend or husband)

  • ojousanお嬢さんojōsan

    Young lady (playful or endearing for a sweet girl)

  • okaachanお母ちゃんokāchan

    Mommy/Ma (casual, endearing term for mother or wife)

  • okaasanお母さんokāsan

    Mother (used affectionately between older married couples)

  • okorinbo怒りん坊okorinbō

    Hothead (affectionate teasing for someone quick to pout/anger)

  • okusan奥さん

    Wife (polite, used playfully by some husbands)

  • omaeお前

    You (masculine, can be very affectionate/possessive when used by a boyfriend/husband)

  • omoibito想い人

    The one I love/Sweetheart (poetic, slightly archaic)

  • onee-chanお姉ちゃんoneechan

    Big sister (highly affectionate, sometimes romantic for older girlfriends)

  • onee-samaお姉様oneesama

    Big sister (formal, theatrical affection)

  • oni鬼

    Demon (playful teasing for a strict but loved partner)

  • oni-yome鬼嫁oniyome

    Demon wife (joking term husbands use, often masking deep affection and respect)

  • onii-chanお兄ちゃんoniichan

    Big brother (highly affectionate, sometimes used romantically for older boyfriends)

  • onii-samaお兄様oniisama

    Big brother (formal, theatrical affection)

  • onrii wanオンリーワンonrī wan

    My only one (English loanword used for romantic affection)

  • ore no俺の

    Mine (rough masculine possessive, confident romantic context)

  • ore no onna俺の女

    My woman (rough, possessive masculine affection)

  • ore no yome俺の嫁

    My wife (otaku slang, used affectionately for favorite characters or real wives)

  • osananajimi幼馴染

    Childhood friend (carries a nostalgic, affectionate, often romantic weight)

  • oshi推し

    Favorite/Bias (idol slang now used affectionately for highly cherished partners)

  • oshidori fuufuおしどり夫婦oshidori fūfu

    Lovebirds (affectionate term for a happily married couple)

  • otouchanお父ちゃんotōchan

    Daddy/Pop (casual, endearing term for father or husband)

  • otousanお父さんotōsan

    Father (used affectionately between older married couples)

  • otouto-kun弟くんotōtokun

    Little bro (affectionate for a younger brother or male friend)

  • ouji王子

    Prince (playful for a handsome boyfriend or cherished son)

  • ouji-sama王子様ōjisama

    Prince (elevated, theatrical playful affection)

P

  • paatonaaパートナーpātonā

    Partner (modern, egalitarian term for a significant other)

  • papaパパ

    Papa/Dad (often used by wives to address their husbands after having kids)

  • penginペンギン

    Penguin (teasing affection for someone cute or clumsy)

  • pi-ぴ-pi

    Cute suffix (modern slang, highly informal and playful)

  • pippiピッピ

    Boyfriend/Partner (modern youth slang, very casual)

  • pocha-kawaぽちゃカワpochakawa

    Chubby-cute (affectionate slang for a delightfully plump person)

  • ponkotsuポンコツ

    Useless/Junk (modern slang, used highly affectionately for a lovable klutz)

  • ppe-っぺ-ppe

    Rustic suffix (sometimes used affectionately or jokingly between friends)

  • puni-puniぷにぷにpunipuni

    Squishy (cute sound used affectionately to poke a partner's cheeks)

  • pureshasuプレシャス

    Precious (English loanword, theatrical affection)

R

  • rabaaラバーrabā

    Lover (English loanword, modern romance)

  • rabu-rabuラブラブraburabu

    Lovey-dovey (slang to describe an openly affectionate couple)

  • rin-りん-rin

    Cute suffix (often attached to names for an affectionate, bubbly feel)

  • ryouomoi両想いryōomoi

    Mutually in love (status term, but used affectionately)

  • ryuu竜ryū

    Dragon (playful praise for a fierce or energetic boy)

S

  • sabishigariya寂しがり屋

    Lonely person (affectionate for someone who hates being alone)

  • saikou最高saikō

    The best (used affectionately to praise a partner's actions or being)

  • saru猿

    Monkey (teasing affection for a mischievous kid or person)

  • seishun青春

    Youth (affectionate metaphor for someone who makes them feel young/alive)

  • sekai ichi世界一

    Best in the world (exaggerated, sweet affection)

  • senpai先輩

    Senior (often carries romantic undertones in school/work contexts)

  • sensei先生

    Teacher (sometimes used as playful roleplay affection between couples)

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  • shachou社長shachō

    President (playful tease for a partner who acts like the boss)

  • shimai姉妹

    Sisters (close affection between female friends)

  • shinyuu親友shinyū

    Best friend (affectionate label for closest confidant)

  • shisho師匠shishō

    Master (playful term for a partner who is better at something)

  • shou-akuma小悪魔shōakuma

    Little devil (endearing term for a playfully manipulative/teasing girl)

  • shoujo少女shōjo

    Girl (sometimes used poetically to express a partner's innocence)

  • shounen少年shōnen

    Boy (sometimes used poetically to express a partner's youthful spirit)

  • shugaaシュガーshugā

    Sugar (English loanword, playful pet name)

  • shujin主人

    Husband (formal, but can carry affectionate loyalty)

  • suito-haatoスウィートハートsuītohāto

    Sweetheart (English loanword, rare but playful)

  • suki好き

    I like you (often implies love in Japanese context)

  • suteki素敵

    Lovely/Wonderful (often used to affectionately praise a partner)

T

  • taisetsu na hito大切な人

    Important person (cherished romantic partner or family member)

  • taishou大将taishō

    Boss (playful, affectionate for a confident male partner)

  • taiyou太陽taiyō

    Sun (poetic endearment, "you are my sun")

  • taiyou-san太陽さんtaiyōsan

    Mr. Sun (cute, affectionate nickname for a bright, cheerful person)

  • takarabako宝箱

    Treasure box (rare, poetic metaphor for someone holding one's joy)

  • takarano宝物takaramono

    Treasure (affectionate term for a child or highly cherished person)

  • tan-たん-tan

    Baby-talk suffix (hyper-affectionate/otaku culture variation of -chan)

  • tanukiタヌキ

    Raccoon dog (tease for a chubby or cleverly mischievous person)

  • tennen天然

    Airhead (affectionate tease for someone naturally spacey or innocent)

  • tenshi天使

    Angel (used affectionately for someone pure or a cute child)

  • tenshi-chan天使ちゃんtenshichan

    Little angel (highly affectionate for a cute girl or child)

  • tereshou照れ性tereshō

    Shy person (affectionate description of a bashful partner)

  • tomo友

    Friend (deep affection for a lifelong friend)

  • tonari no hito隣の人

    The person next to me (modest, affectionate way to refer to a spouse)

  • tonosama殿様

    Lord (teasing for an arrogant but loved partner)

  • tora虎

    Tiger (playful praise for a fierce or protective person)

  • toshishita no kanojo年下の彼女

    Younger girlfriend (factual but often used with cute affection)

  • toshishita no kareshi年下の彼氏

    Younger boyfriend (factual but often used with cute affection)

  • toshishita-chan年下ちゃんtoshishitachan

    Younger girl (affectionate term for a younger female partner)

  • toshishita-kun年下くんtoshishitakun

    Younger boy (affectionate term for a younger male partner)

  • toutoi尊いtōtoi

    Precious/Divine (slang to describe overwhelming affection for someone)

  • tsuki月

    Moon (poetic, historic connotations of love like "tsuki ga kirei")

  • tsukkomiツッコミ

    Straight man (playful label for the logical partner in banter)

  • tsuma妻

    Wife (standard, but used with deep affection in private)

  • tsundereツンデレ

    Prickly then sweet (pop culture term used affectionately for defensive partners)

U

  • uchi noうちの

    My [partner/kid] (casual, affectionate ingroup marker)

  • uchi no hitoうちの人

    My person (casual, affectionate way wives refer to husbands)

  • uchi no koうちの子

    My child (deeply affectionate for kids or beloved pets)

  • unmei no hito運命の人

    Person of destiny/Soulmate (highly romantic)

  • usagi-chanうさぎちゃんusagichan

    Little bunny (affectionate for a cute, timid girl)

  • utsukushii美しい

    Beautiful (poetic, deep affectionate praise)

W

  • waga-gimi我が君wagagimi

    My lord (archaic/fantasy, extreme respectful affection)

  • wagamamaわがまま

    Selfish (often used affectionately to describe a cute, demanding partner)

  • waifuワイフ

    Wife (borrowed from English, sometimes used playfully)

  • waka若

    Young master (playful, archaic tease for a boy)

  • wan-chanワンちゃんwanchan

    Doggie (affectionate comparison for an eager, loyal partner)

  • warugaki悪ガキ

    Brat (affectionate for a mischievous child or partner)

  • wasurenbo忘れん坊wasurenbō

    Forgetful person (playful tease)

  • watashi no私の

    Mine (feminine/neutral possessive, romantic context)

  • watashi no otoko私の男

    My man (confident feminine possessive affection)

Y

  • yaba-kawaヤバカワyabakawa

    Crazy cute (slang for overwhelming affection)

  • yama-no-kami山の神yama no kami

    Goddess of the mountain (archaic/joking, respectful/fearful affection for a wife)

  • yandereヤンデレ

    Lovesick and crazy (pop culture term, sometimes jokingly used for intense clinginess)

  • yasashii hito優しい人

    Kind person (affectionate description of a gentle partner)

  • yatsugareやつがれ

    I/Me (archaic, used in historical anime, not modern endearment)

  • yome嫁

    Wife (casual, sometimes used affectionately or possessively by husbands)

  • yome-chan嫁ちゃんyomechan

    Wifey (casual, highly affectionate slang for one's wife)

  • yousei妖精yōsei

    Fairy (playful praise for an ethereal or cute girl)

  • yowamushi弱虫

    Scaredy-cat (affectionate tease for a timid person)

Z

  • zokonぞっこんzokkon

    Deeply in love/Smitten (informal expression of intense affection)

  • zutto-tomoズッ友zuttotomo

    Friends forever (affectionate youth slang)

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